We have rules that need to be followed. Safety is always key both sex safety and MDK safety. My husband and I are open.
Men bring their wives to the club for the first time, women bring the men back there after…. Having been in the lifestyle for many years, I think I can help make swinging easier and more enjoyable for both men and women. Why is that?
For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like.
Quite frankly, some of her comments on the subject surprised me! For me, I'd need a proper seduction complete with wining and dining. Since Swinging does not offer the female access to the male's resources or any sense of identity, the possibility of making babies, protection or security, I must assume women who Swing are a cultural and biological aberration. DB: Would you say that most Americans are satisfied with their sex lives?
One of the biggest misconceptions from those outside the swinging arena is that women are forced into the lifestyle by their husbands or partners. Granted, one spouse might bring up the subject of swinging, but maintaining an active role in the swinging lifestyle is definitely a consensual agreement between both partners. Would I have ever given swinging a try had John not already been involved?
Read more from him on his website, GoodInBed. And, of course, like all things online, the Internet has amplified these opportunities and made it easier to find couples and clubs in a neighborhood near you. Chances are you have a friend or neighbor who is swinging.
I wanted to find out what it is about swinging that keeps happily married women in the lifestyle. I kissed a girl and I liked it And apparently, she's not the only one.
The first time I went swinging was about 13 years ago. My marriage had ended unhappily, I had been treated in rehab for alcoholism, where I was told not to start any relationship for 12 months because another person could alter my mood. I wondered what on earth I was meant to do; I had no intention of living without sex. A friend of mine said 'why don't you come along with me to a swingers' party?
A few years into our marriage, my husband started talking about swinging. I felt uncomfortable with the idea of swinging, but gradually came around. Over the last two years, we joined a web site, met a few couples, and had three experiences—once with one couple, twice with another.